About Katja
she/her
I've been writing stories about people all my life. I love to notice what makes them tick, what makes them come alive, what lights their fire and makes them different. For me, the magic lives in the details where no one else is looking.
Writing a wedding ceremony is all about pulling the threads on those details and weaving it into something that reflects people in their best possible light. Something that wraps everyone up in all the love and excitement leading up to the big day and exudes authentic joy. What can I say? I love a celebration.
My ceremonies are inclusive, affirming, and creative — for all identities, all relationships, and for whatever you want your celebration to say.
photo: alba lumos photography
Q&A
What are your certifications?
I'm ordained as a minister through the Universal Life Church and a registered officiant with the City of New York.
Where do you do weddings?
I'm based in Brooklyn and primarily offer weddings in NYC, but my NYC registration allows me to officiate throughout New York State and many other places! I have also officiated in Delaware, Maine, and New Hampshire. I'm happy to travel with you — check out my services for more.
Do you do religious ceremonies?
I'm not a religious leader and I don't personally practice a religion. However, I was baptized in the Congregational church and I am the granddaughter of a reverend. While my ceremonies are secular, I believe that each individual's relationship to faith, spirituality, and the universe is sacred. I'm happy to talk to you about incorporating spiritual elements into your ceremony.
photo: alba lumos photography
What does the ceremony process look like?
Everything starts with a (free!) consultation. From there, we'll develop your ceremony content together. This comes from a combination of questionnaires and conversations (with you, your partner, and whoever else you might want to pull quotes from). I'll always get your final signoff before the big day, and I'll always sign and file the marriage license, with confirmation that it arrives safely. The rest depends on your unique needs.
What about LGBTQ weddings?
A thousand times yes! I have officiated for queer and trans folks. It's important to me to create ceremonies that reflect every aspect of you, your love, and your identity.
What if I don't want to say "til death do us part" or "I thee wed?"
Then we won't say it. This is your ceremony, so there's no need for language or traditions that don't serve you. The only things we legally have to have are consent and pronouncement, but that doesn't mean we're stuck with "I do" and "I pronounce you man and wife." We'll find what works!
photo: susan stripling
Can I write my own vows?
Absolutely!
Do I have to write my own vows?
Absolutely not!
Can I have my mom/dad/sister/underwater basket weaving coach speak during the ceremony?
You got it.
What will you wear?
I'll wear a simple, professional, all-black outfit that matches the dress code for your wedding. If you'd like me to wear something other than black or match your wedding party, let's talk about it!